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  • 51 44
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 9:19pm

    If you have to ask, you probably know the answer. It depends on who/what you're looking for.

  • 53 51
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 12:21am

    Personal preferences. If you want to have sex on the first date, have sex on the first date. And no more of this stupid only girls are whores thing, if Stephen Colbert can own up to being a whore, then all other whores of the male gender can too.

  • 44 39
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 7, 09 at 6:39am

    Not really, who wants to have a relationship with someone who does that? It's a favor to her too.

  • 52 58
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 6:40pm

    you know, as far as i'm concerned, if 2 consenting adults want to have sex on the first date, go for it. if the guy/girl in question doesn't talk to you after, they were obviously only after one thing which makes them not worth it anyways. if they like you, they'll stick around. i sound like dr. fucking phil but it's true...if you wanna fuck, fuck.

  • 51 58
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 7, 09 at 10:27pm

    Wow. Trust me- you don't have to be a "bible beater" to wait a few dates. All you need is a little self respect.

  • 58 72
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 10:38pm

    I've found that sucking good dick can be just as affective as fucking. Everyone wins!

  • 46 54
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 6:03pm

    never expected any on the first date...maybe that's why i never had sex on one

  • 45 52
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 7:59pm

    yeah...totally a ligit question lol

  • 52 68
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 11:16pm

    Wait having sex on the first date is a bad thing? Shit, I better go tell my husband that.

  • 44 53
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 2:13am

    Well, I also know, but that's because I was hiding in the closet at the time.

  • 41 52
    Submitted by Anonymous on Sep 22, 09 at 10:12pm

    wow where are you girls finding these guys who expect you to put out on the first date? are you the same ones who can't be single for 2 weeks without losing respect for yourself?? this has never happened to me, believe me i love sex but 1 date? in my books that's a one-night stand... then i realise that guy is not dating material.

  • 36 44
    Submitted by Anonymous on Dec 16, 09 at 4:02pm

    O.C. being well represented ;)

  • 42 56
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 8:09pm

    protip: if you're a girl asking this question you're dating a fucking bro

  • 38 49
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:55pm

    Am I the only one who thinks this is a legit question?

  • 36 46
    Submitted by Anonymous on Nov 8, 09 at 5:43pm

    Anytime now would be a good idea.

  • 39 52
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 9:50pm

    Depends on how old you want to be before you get married. Like it or not that's the deal.

  • 47 70
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 2:44pm

    2:22 Nothing it is just another screening process of quality girls.

  • 37 50
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 8:34am

    this is pathetic...i mean, really. dumb skank..

  • 39 55
    Submitted by Anonymous on Dec 31, 09 at 6:38pm

    yeah, definatly making O.C. look good, just like the show did the same thing. I hate when people think just because I live here I'm like that.

  • 32 41
    Submitted by Anonymous on Oct 31, 09 at 4:47pm

    isn't part of the fun in the first time you have sex with a guy the built up tension? idk but I know quite a few guys who like the thrill of the hunt. some guys lose interest after you give it up too soon.

  • 48 73
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 6:40pm

    you know, as far as i'm concerned, if 2 consenting adults want to have sex on the first date, go for it. if the guy/girl in question doesn't talk to you after, they were obviously only after one thing which makes them not worth it anyways. if they like you, they'll stick around. i sound like dr. fucking phil but it's true...if you wanna fuck, fuck.

  • 37 51
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 7:34am

    3.23 that is ridiculous. People don't just go to nightclubs to have sex - if you meet someone and you want to, fine. If you just want to dance and have a good time, and maybe even meet someone but then NOT have sex with them, also fine. It's all good - do what's right for you.

  • 31 40
    Submitted by BlondeBabeNsb on Apr 19, 10 at 4:51am

    Most guys lose interest to soon because you gave it them to soon, but ive learn if you stay on the dl, let them find out and give him spmething to look forward for. There would be nothong left to discover. They say they hate games, oh thats so not true,as long as you dont play tooo hard. Just like when a guy calls you back after a first date, you dont answer and call him back the day after because you were "busy." Give them something forward for like i said.

  • 43 64
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:49pm

    how old are you now?

  • 47 73
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 8:35pm

    Always put out on first date. Don't they teach that in grade school.

  • 40 59
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 7:22pm

    ...I just don't think you have to put out on the FIRST date is all. Mystery is fun, you know?

  • 36 51
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:57pm

    This is so sad. Young girls are such skeevy vapid skank whores these days.

  • 34 48
    Submitted by Anonymous on Jan 2, 10 at 10:01pm

    Ps THIS IS 2010, ABSTINENCE IS THE NEW THING 0_0

  • 40 60
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 7:04pm

    This is just sad..... Only have sex with someone because you want to. If the guy's not wanting to wait until you feel like having sex, then he's not worth your time. There are guys out there that are willing to wait.....

  • 41 62
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 6:08pm

    totally a legit question

  • 41 63
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 11:58pm

    everyone should just have sex, and not feel guilty, or not have sex and not feel guilty. and also not feel superior. or at least shut up about it. if you have hangups about sex, and you're fucking all the time and not working through your hangups, then there's something wrong. otherwise, I think you're okay.

  • 30 42
    Submitted by Dan_Obrien on Jun 24, 10 at 4:49am

    Never

  • 37 56
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 9:31pm

    8.35 thats how i live my life.

  • 38 59
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 6:58pm

    I enjoy a girl who is not prude about sex...it feels good so why bash having lots of it...you just have to practice safe sex

  • 39 61
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:13pm

    all you have to do is be an interesting and appealing person so the guy has a reason to go back. this way if you hold out on him, he will want it more

  • 34 52
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 10:57pm

    i've been wondering that myself. i think when we start dating guys who are old enough to be so desperate that they'll pay for another dinner or two.

  • 35 55
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 11:59am

    Many guys won't date a girl that fucks on the first date, because they wonder how many guys she has done that with and nobody wants to date something that was easy to get. The challenge is what keeps guys interested, otherwise you turn into just a nice place to fuck and he fucks around on you

  • 36 57
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 7:51pm

    why is it up to the girls to not screw on the first date? why don't we start judging you boys for it instead...obviously you are no different if you fuck the first time right

  • 34 53
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:13pm

    Better get yours on the first date cuz you prolly aren't going to see a second

  • 40 66
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 12:50pm

    How about "the age where you have some self respect"?

  • 42 70
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 6:08pm

    Oh, please. Fake tfln and has to be a guy. Any girl who has to worry about this should probably stop doing it. Otherwise go for it and anyone who tells them they are skanks are probably just jealous. Like guys who never get any.

  • 36 60
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 11:25am

    i didnt even have a real date with my boyfriend before we messed around.....if you want to count "hanging out" as a date, then we "hung out" twice and i blew him both times. we've been together for over a year now. guess he just can't get enough :)

  • 33 55
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 8:07am

    ...i have a feeling that this was not a serious question and so does not require a heated debate.

  • 32 55
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 9:34pm

    I agree with OP. Guys always expect it on the first date, there has to be an age.

  • 31 55
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 5:25pm

    3:13 go back to the 50's im guessing you are single

  • 38 69
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 10:43pm

    Where are these girls and why do I never meet them?

  • 38 69
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:31pm

    never if you want it go for it

  • 41 77
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 11:01pm

    in my experience, if you like a guy hold out for the third date. . . if they push you really hard on the first date, they obviously don't feel the same. . . if you don't really like a guy, fuck them the first date: if they're good keep them around till you get bored, if they suck, don't ever answer their texts again. there, rules to live by. always use guys: they like it, and so do you, everything else doesn't really matter.

  • 33 61
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 8:08pm

    how old? you have to be born. then you're old enough to know better

  • 30 55
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:23pm

    lol. 45. Also skanky but whatever. I go with you probably shouldn't be allowed in public.

  • 41 78
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 3:13pm

    dear girl who submitted this, please have respect for yourself and your sisters. never give it up on the first date, never. make the guy prove himself. maybe i'm old fashioned, but i need an i love you first and at least a month. think about it.

  • 37 71
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 2:22pm

    you people are retarded, whats wrong with banging on first date? its not like u are gonna marry her. bunch of fucking wimps, then u wonder why u dont get laid.

  • 36 69
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 10:18pm

    6:28- right on. I hate the word "skank". You're only a skank if you do it because you have no confidence. If you do it because you like it, then you're cool.

  • 32 62
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 6:59pm

    You're doing it because you feel obligated?

  • 34 66
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 1:35am

    if it feels good, do it!! no one else has to know about it except you and him.

  • 37 72
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 8:11pm

    Never. Always fuck on the first date. How else are you going to know if he likes you?

  • 31 61
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 8:13am

    Don't bother with a date. Just hook up at a bar

  • 35 70
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 29, 09 at 6:48am

    I'm just going to ditto 10.27. Why don't people have more self respect in yourself. If your not confident enough in yourself, and feel the only way of validation in any relationship is to spread your legs on the first date, you have NO self respect. There's no set age, just know enough not to fuck around. I, personally, would like to know the person I'm going to fuck. Wrapped up or not, there are still ways to get an STD, and I'd rather know the person i'm with doesn't have any. Common Sense.

  • 31 62
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 11:06pm

    I say fuck on first date to decide if HE is worth a second date. Nothing more depressing than holding out till third date to find out he is small, or worse, BAD. Do what you like but love yoruself. Word.

  • 30 62
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 7, 09 at 2:20am

    I don't quite grasp the logic behind a quality screening process in which you still sleep with girl on the first date, and decide she's not worth seeing again. Wouldn't that render yourselves as low grade product?

  • 31 65
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 3:38pm

    Having sex on a first date constantly leads to failed relationships. Stronger relationships are built on holding out (at least a short while) on the physical part. If all you care about is getting off, who cares what date you have sex on?

  • 31 67
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 7:34pm

    so is sex... and 608, totally right.

  • 27 60
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 1:54pm

    Get a fucking boyfriend and stop being a slut. Problem solved.

  • 24 56
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 8:21am

    323, I don't know about high school but I do remember learning that from an episode of Undressed on MTV.

  • 23 56
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 6, 09 at 2:56pm

    I AGREE WITH 2:22! RIGHT ON BRAH! FUCK PUSSY! ROCK OUT WITH YOUR COCK OUT ALL DAY LONG! GET YOUR DICK WET YEAAAAAAAAH!

  • 30 70
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 6:43pm

    6:28 quit your bitching. You must be the fugly one in the crowd and if you don't put out on the 1st date, you won't be getting ANY

  • 32 76
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 5:38pm

    if you can afford to pay for your own drinks/food/etc, you shouldn't feel obligated to slut around on first date.

  • 29 74
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 10:06pm

    Sex is just sex.. if you feel like fucking then do it.. there is no set age.. just make sure to tell the guy to double bag it.. if you are fucking on every first date u probably have something..

  • 22 60
    Submitted by Anonymous on Aug 5, 09 at 7:19pm

    I agree with 6:28. I am not fugly by any means I like to have fun just as much as the next guy. So why does that make me a slut?? Some day I hope this way of thinking is abolished!!!